eridangit said: I have recently thought I was a lesbian but for a week or so I've been having some other feelings, and I dont care what people look like or what they have 'up or down there', and I was wondering if I would identify as pansexual or confused >:?
Well FIRST I wouldn’t get too concerned about it for many reasons.
If it’s only been for about a week or so, they could very well be temporary.
I believe that in most sexualities, there has so be some kind of ‘not give a fuck about looks but all on personality’. It just depends on the extend in which you feel it runs you attraction. For example. Most demisexuals feel they NEED an emotional bond for intimacy. Not a one sided one. It may even take month for them to feel they can be intimate with someone.
Pansexuals, it doesn’t really matter what gender is. You have that correct. But feelings can also be confused. Feelings for one person aren’t always the same to someone else. It’s like a cold you get. It may feel the same but there can be a slightly different make up to it.
You also have to remember that there are always exceptions to every rule. My girlfriend accidentally felt a military man’s back. Mind you, she’s a hard core lesbian. Like, penis, no matter what, freaks her out. She felt how, as she put ‘solid’ he was a melted inside a little bit. You’re not always as ‘gay’ as you think.
And lastly, we’re as animistic as any other mammals. We have biological radars that are constantly on look out for an acceptable ‘mate’. Like I’m sure you’ve learned in science class, only the strong survive. We humans are all that far from that rule.
Well, I hope that helps you honey. If you want some more advice, please feel free to ask. I’m always open :)
