Pansexual Problems // reading more about it, I’ve realized the “overall” definition of pansexual is feeling sexual attraction to any gender/body regardless of love or intimacy. Except I need those feelings of intimacy/love/attachment in order to feel sexually attracted to anyone- gender comes secondary. after mutual feelings are established, attraction follows, and though I do recognize gender, I find I have interest in any gender- would this fall under pansexuality?

Anonymous said: reading more about it, I've realized the "overall" definition of pansexual is feeling sexual attraction to any gender/body regardless of love or intimacy. Except I need those feelings of intimacy/love/attachment in order to feel sexually attracted to anyone- gender comes secondary. after mutual feelings are established, attraction follows, and though I do recognize gender, I find I have interest in any gender- would this fall under pansexuality?

This one was a little toughy. My roomie had to help me a little wth this one. It sounds a little more like Demisexual to me.

Here’s how my friend put it;

‘I see pansexuality as i don’t give a fuck what gender you are. If I like you, I like you. You can be an alien for all I care. If you’re an alien, more than likely I’ll like you. ‘Cause aliens are interesting. And I mean C’mon! They’re aliens’

Well, as I can agree with Sarah, it sounds a little more like a panromantic demisexual. If you need me to break it down it’s [panromantic] that gender gives no fucks. Species, I suppose on Sarah’s terms as well, give no fucks. If you like them, you like them. However, like you said, [demisexual] there needs to be some kind of emotional connection for intimacy to occur.

I hope this helped. I’m sorry if I confused any of you with the long ass names. Please feel free to ask me anything fi you have questions on what I just said XD

~M

12 months ago